Ask your children...
Ask your child, what is the happiest part of their daily routine?
Moreover, in the past week/month/year, what were his/her three most positive moments?
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Does your child lack confidence?
Boost self-confidence for children
A high level of self-confidence is one of the best ways in which to eliminate limiting beliefs. We may have spent many years or even decades harboring these limiting beliefs. There are several ways in which we will help boost your child’s self-confidence:
Listen to your children
- Interrupting your child has the following negative implications: • Your words are more interesting and more important than those of your child • What your child is saying is no longer important to you • You do not really care and no longer have the time to listen to your child • Your child’s slow or hesitant speech – which is probably an indication of someone who has difficulty expressing themselves – has irritated you and made you impatient. Give them space… The communication has degenerated from a conversation into a contest, whereby you need to “win over” your child.
Listen to your children
- Interrupting your child has the following negative implications: • Your words are more interesting and more important than those of your child • What your child is saying is no longer important to you • You do not really care and no longer have the time to listen to your child • Your child’s slow or hesitant speech – which is probably an indication of someone who has difficulty expressing themselves – has irritated you and made you impatient. Give them space… The communication has degenerated from a conversation into a contest, whereby you need to “win over” your child.
Teenager’s feelings…
Teenager’s feelings…
When they feel overwhelmed, unsuccessful, hurt and frustrated, many teens tend to blame others or circumstances for their problems. This only increases their sense of failure and prevents them from moving forward.
When we replace blaming and justifying with taking responsibility, there is a huge shift in mindset and the result is progress and success.
We do not focus on the past
" We do not focus on the past, we do not look for labels, we do not search for people or circumstances to blame for the unhappiness in life. Instead, teenagers assess their situation, dream, plan their journey and start moving forward".
Think of it as a driving course. If they drive looking backwards, they will have lots of accidents, but if they look forward most of the time and only look in the rear-view mirror from time to time, they will arrive at the destination safely.